Monday, April 6, 2009

Sexting



What should people do if they cannot even feel safe enough to answer their own phone? Students now feel comfortable enough with themselves that they feel it necessary to take photos of themselves, and give it to a boyfriend as a way of showing affection. People need to understand that this is not only disgusting but it is a risk to your character, to your reputation and also to the rest of your life. This new craze which has the law taken aback is called “Sexting”
What is sexting? It is something that has just been brought out into the public as one of the newest crazes within a teenage setting. People these days are willing to trust all of their identification as well as other parts of their lives so now they feel like they can live their entire life, including their sexuality, over their cell phones.
People may believe that felonies only occur when there is a physical contact with another human being. Now not only is it a felony for that, you can be charged with a felony for posting these photos of yourself. In a recent court case a fourteen year old girl posted photos of herself on MySpace for her boyfriend. She is now being charged with jail time as well as at least twenty years on the sex offender list.
When interviewing a junior, they stated “I feel so comfortable with my phone I have every number, every date and almost every moment of my life planned out on my phone, why not have every aspect of my life be on my phone. What are long distance couples supposed to do, drive out and see each other every night? It would be impossible, plus, using sexting could even be safer, even less of a chance of pregnancy.”
Even with understanding that fact, is the text that you send going to make up for whatever it is you are trying to compensate for? Plus the bad stuff will always be worse than what you intend on having happen.
What is the point of this sexting if what might happen in return could be even worse? If at some point these couples break up, they might spread these photos around the schools, they might end worse off than when they started. The photos are at risk to be spread anywhere. The pictures aren’t something that can be taken back after they are sent. These photos are going to defile someone just by taking them, but having others see might be even worse.
Another new problem that has been arising is the “art” of photo bombing which can be as simple as just jumping in the background of someone’s picture that is being taken, or to another extreme where people are going in and edit up peoples photos. Sometimes these cases are pushed even to the sexting extreme.
People need to be more aware of what they are doing to themselves as well as the people around them. Students shouldn’t have to deal with the backfire of a stupid decision that can be completely avoided. Look at people actors and actresses that have made that decision in the past, now they have had to deal with that backfire in their careers.
Think before you text!

Saturday, April 4, 2009

Turn the page

As i start on my newest journey in my life, I am hoping to create something new, by turning the pages on my life. I want to show the world that no matter how long it will take i will change all that I am going to need to to show everyone that people can change.

It is time to create a new and better life for ourselves. No matter how long it takes, isn't it worth it to try whatever we have to in order to make a better life for the future.

I am about to graduate and I feel as though I have changed some, its not enough. I need a true change.




On a long and lonesome highway east of omaha
You can listen to the engines moaning out as one note song
You think about the woman or the girl you knew the night before

But your thoughts will soon be wandering the way they always do
When youre riding sixteen hours and theres nothing much to do
And you dont feel much like riding, you just wish the trip was through

Here I am - on the road again
There I am - up on the stage
Here I go - playing star again
There I go - turn the page

So you walk into this restaurant strung out from the road
And you feel the eyes upon you, as youre shaking off the cold
You pretend it doesnt bother you, but you just want to explode

Yeah, most times you cant hear em talk, other times you can
All the same old clichs, is it woman? is it man?
And you always seem outnumbered, you dont dare make a stand
Make your stand

Here I am - on the road again
There I am - up on the stage
Here I go - playing star again
There I go - turn the page

Oo-ooh, out there in the spotlight, youre a million miles away
Every ounce of energy you try to give away
As the sweat pours out your body like the music that you play, yeah

Later in the evening, you lie awake in bed
With the echoes of the amplifiers ringing in your head
You smoke the days last cigarette, remembering what she said
What she said

He-ey

Yeah
And here I am - on the road again
There I am - up on a stage
Here I go - playing star again
There I go - turn the page
There I go - turn that page
There I go, yeah, yeah
There I go, yeah, yeah
There I go, yeah
There I go, yeah
There I go, oo-oo-ooh
There I go
And Im gone



-Metallica

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Come Back to ME

you say you gotta go and find yourself
you say that you’re becoming someone else
don’t recognize the face in the mirror
looking back at you

you say you’re leavin
as you look away
i know theres really nothin left to say
just know i’m here
whenever you need me
i’ll wait for you

so i’ll let you go
i’ll set you free
and when you see what you need to see
when you find you come back to me

take your time i wont go anywhere
picture you with the wind in your hair
i’ll keep your things right where you left them
i’ll be here for you

oh and i’ll let you go
i’ll set you free
and when you see what you need to see
when you find you come back to me

and i hope you find everything that you need
i’ll be right here waiting to see
you find you come back to me

i can’t get close if your not there
i can’t get inside if theres no soul to bear
i can’t fix you i can’t save you
its something you have to do

so i’ll let you go
i’ll set you free
and when you see what you need to see
when you find you come back to me
come back to me
so i’ll let you go
i’ll set you free
and when you see what you need to see
when you find you come back to me

and i hope you find everything that you need
i’ll be right here waiting to see
you find you come back to me

when you find you come back to me
when you find you come back to me
when you find you come back to me


When hearing that song, i thought about how i would feel if my love and i split up. We have created the most amazing bond over the last year. This has now become something that i think will happen. Maybe if we do part, he will come back.